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Its not that cuckolding makes me hot – its more that i beleive its the natural relationship for me. I see it almost like a form of sexuality – gay people are attracted to gay people, straights are attracted to straights and submissive men who cant satisfy a Womans sexual needs are attracted to Dominant Women who desire multiple partners. Its taken me many years to reach this point. I do not beleive im worthless, i am a normal male who has no problems in attracting Women, the problem comes in the bedroom. I am slightly under the average size (5 inches) but i simply cannot maintain erections (even with viagra) long enough to have sex. All my relationships have fizzled out, most of them because i couldnt not make love to my partner. Even so, i was always at my happiest with my head between the thighs of a Woman performing oral worship. Its hard to explain but i get a great sense of calm and satisfaction from making a Woman orgasm with my tongue. None of my ex partners could ever understand how this would satisy me, they didnt get why i didnt want an orgasm in return. For me it was simple, when i was in bed with a Woman all i wanted was for Her to forget about my penis and let me concentrate on Her happiness.
In the 6 years since my last relationship ive gone from hating my limp dick, to developing a fetish for SPH, to becoming a panty addict, sissy and here i am now, actually happy with my penis as I really want to be a cuck.

(2) what part (if any) does humiliation play in this for you?

Oh it definitely plays a part. I dont hate myself or think im worthless but if by humiliating myself i can give pleasure to a Woman then i get very turned on by doing it. I love it when Women find small limp penises amusing and im more than happy to try and make them laugh – i like the idea that my penis can give Women some pleasure, even if its not by penetration! However, if my dreams of being cucked come true and the Woman did not want to even see my penis, then i would concede to Her wishes.

(3) Do any of you who enjoy cuckolding think of themselves as a submissive, or is this idea off track?

Im extremely submissive. Ive always been in awe of Women, i think it comes from the fact my parents divorced when i was young so i grew up with my mother and sister so developed a respect for Females. i do beleive in Female superiority but im no doormat. i will argue my corner but at the end of the day will concede to my partners wishes. The satisfaction i get from making Women happy fulfills my every need – even performing simple tasks for online Mistresses ive met gives me a huge sense of contentment. i know that i will be so happy serving and worshipping a Cuckholdress. Again im not a doormat and i dont have low self esteem, i just want to make the Women in my life as happy as possible. Because i would love this Woman i would want Her to receive the sexual satisfaction i cannot provide so would be delighted for Her to take on lovers. i wouldnt be jealous or resentfull of them at all, why would i be? They would be making the Woman i love happy so i would be gratefull to them. In fact, because ive never seen any of my partners in the throws of sexual passion, i would love to see a stud take my Wife to heights of pleasure – what a great thing to witness!
If you would like to know more, i would be happy to go into further detail

Great project! I have had some experience as a cuck, with girlfriends, as I have never been married – for obvious, physical reasons I will reveal. In answer to your questions:

(1) what is it about cuckolding that makes you hot?

There are a couple reasons I get hot. The main reason is the real pleasure I get seeing my woman sexually pleased and satisfied when I know I personally cannot do that for her. The second is that I can easily imagine some guy’s huge cock and balls belong to me when she is fucking her, they are my huge bullocks. Why so? I am a tall guy with a small penis, less than 4 inches when erect, if I can get it up at all. When I was a teen I lost my left testicle, almost lost both of them, while playfully exposing myself to a group of teenage girls.

(2) what part (if any) does humiliation play in this for you? From my reading about it, cuckolding is often put together with femdom, as it can be part of the Dom/sub dynamic for some couples.

Yes, I enjoy femdom scenarios. Humiliation also, I that seems to make me much more aroused, giving me an erection (however small lol) when normal sex generally does not. Women have always teased me about my Lonenut and Stubby, and I have learned to enjoy that as I see it really please them, makes them laugh. I love to hear women laugh, a shocked squeal, or an amused Ewwww! And if I don’t have the genitals to sexually satisfy a woman, I do have the tools to make them laugh and giggle. That is fun! For more on me, you can research my Flickr.com site;my name on there is Lonenut&Stubby.

(3) Do any of you who enjoy cuckolding think of themselves as a submissive, or is this idea off track?

Women rule! But I think I am not totally submissive, as I have agreed to being a willing, participating wittol. It is better than being just cheated on, unknown or known. I have been a cuck with three women over my life. No woman has considered having me as a husband … for life, yet. I am in my 50s.

As far as why i’m happiest when i’m cuckolded not too sure…but i have always been very attracted to “easy” women and have thing for humiliation as well… i am also bi and submissive and am fairly underendowed…not so much in length, but very much so in girth, which i have found over the years quite difficult to get a woman to reach orgasm through intercourse.

So, i think the fetish found me in a way.

I have always been like this, but it didnt all fall into place till i discovered the ins and outs of the lifestyle on the internet…i didnt even know it had a name.

After reading most cuckold attributes…i had finally found who i was in a sense.

In persuing the lifestyle…i have had partners be with other men, not always with my knowing, but after seeing my ex’s/partner climax with other men when i had never been able to achieve that for them…it just seemed automatic for me and in a sense fits me like a glove.

I am currently with a new partner of 2 years, and have put things on hold through starting a family…but the day i met her, i came out straight away and told her i’m bi and a cuckold…after explaining what one was and showed her the scene really exists on the net…she was more than happy with the set up, especially knowing cucks stay monogamous.

So hopefully in the near future we will find a friend/bull to explore this together.

Am happy to ask any questions if i can
help.

BTW i’m 43yo, and a graphic designer based in Melbourne as i said.

Cheers

Slinky

My wife has been cheating for a long time. I found out about it and was initially incredibly hurt. But by the third time I found out I had somehow developed a taste for her cheating! I think of it as an ‘eroticised fear’. the sensation of knowing she was cheating was awful to begin with but it was always mixed in with an intense emotional buzz. I guess the hurt diminished over time, though it’s never gone completely, and the buzz remained.

I’m definitely submissive. I think this may be because I’m very under-endowed so it’s hard to feel really manly. I also have to admit that I’m not a great lover, as my size gives me performance anxiety from time to time and I also struggle to last very long because I need a lot of stimulation to get going, thanks to my performance anxiety! I think this is all par of the reason I’ve become more accepting of my wife’s cheating, as I know I’ve never been able to satisfy her.

My wife sometimes plays dominant games with me – I get spanked on a regular basis and my she has definitely grown more enthusiastic about this. I don’t think she was naturally dominant to begin with but she certainly seems to be now. A recurrent game we play is that I will get spanked if I don’t perform well in bed, and this is always accompanied by teasing about my size and performance.

She has always been very reluctant to share any details of her affairs, but she has started to open up recently. I’m currently reeling from last Saturday night when she gave me more detail than ever before about a few days she spent with a lover.

I’m 37, well-educated, in a high-paying job in finance. I only had one previous girlfriend before my wife and she also cheated on me. I never got the same kick out of that – possibly because we broke up before my taste for cuckolding had time to develop.

For me, it is the intense stomach-churning sensation of being humiliated that compensates for the sense of unhappiness and jealousy – or perhaps they’re just part of the same thing and I react in two completely separate ways to the same stimulus – with jealousy, pain, and also intense arousal. It’s because of this that being teased and mocked for my inadequacies plays such a strong part.