If you sit for a second and really think about what cuckolding is, you come up with all kinds of questions. I don’t mean the literal definition; I mean just what cuckolding IS. The woman in the relationship is free to act single, be sexy, have fun, flirt with people, have sex, go out anytime she wants… all the while having someone at home that she loves and that loves her back, takes care of her financially, she has a secure relationship with him. That sounds like it’s every woman’s dream life! Doing as she pleases with whomever she pleases while having security and comfort with her partner. It doesn’t sound like every man’s dream by any means. What man is secure enough in their relationship to give his woman the keys to her “freedom”? Letting her do whatever she wishes as long as she comes home to him.
It is really mind-boggling to think that there are so many men that want this type of lifestyle, for whatever reason, yet so few women that want to cuckold their men. How can that be? Like I said, it doesn’t sound like a man’s dream but it certainly sounds like every woman would want to live a life of fun, sex, and security! Why are more men interested in cuckolding than women? I have a few thoughts on it.
Women seem to be more sexually confined by society. We’ve yet to have a woman president in the United States, but not for lack of trying. Women didn’t even get the right to vote in the United States until 1920! (Again, not for lack of trying.) In Victorian times, women weren’t allowed sexual satisfaction and were even blamed for the moral decline of society if they happened to enjoy themselves. They weren’t allowed to have sex unless it was for the purpose of procreation. Imagine being shamed because you liked sex!
Men aren’t as hindered by sexuality in itself. There are some really twisted double standards in our society. If a single woman is with a couple guys in the span of a weekend, she’s deemed a slut. A single man that gets two different ladies in a weekend? Way to go, man! *fist bump* …know what I mean? People expect men to be horn-dogs, to go out trying to find as many different women to sleep with as they can get their hands on. But people expect women to be proper, beautiful, reserved, and not sexual or even promiscuous.
If a guy has what my husband likes to call a “good threesome” (2 women, 1 man) then he’s the king. He can brag to every guy he knows about his experience. But do you think either of those women will go bragging to her friends? It’s highly unlikely. She doesn’t want the dirty looks or the ridicule that would come from those that don’t understand. Women have been told most of their life to repress their sexual feelings. We’re not supposed to talk about sex, which leaves us feeling ashamed and confused because we have those feelings and experiences, but no one to talk to about them. Women are still sexually repressed and don’t understand their sexuality.
Most women don’t even understand orgasms, or have never really had one. Obviously, men don’t have this problem. They know what it is and how to achieve it. According to this study, 10-15% of women have NEVER had an orgasm. A good 30% have no idea where their clitoris is! In fact, more men in this study knew where the clitoris was than women. (Come on, ladies!) Check out this study and the really thoughtful comments. It may even prompt you to do some self-exploration, ladies… We can’t be scared of our bodies and learning what feels good. Once we learn what WE like, we can help our men to understand what we like. Again, as my husband says from time to time “You don’t know what night is because you’ve never seen day. You don’t know what bad is because you’ve never seen good.” If you don’t know what an orgasm is or how to achieve one, how do you know what you’re missing? 
I’m so glad that the world is changing, but it takes people a long time to be more accepting – or even ‘numb’ to things. Take all the celebrities and their sex scandals. Lots of women have a sex tape that has or eventually make its rounds. The first few were shocking! But the more it happens, the more we expect it. How many men have been with numerous women only to be forced to admit it years later? Sure, when it happens the first few times we as a society are SHOCKED. Truth is, it’s so common nowadays, we barely pay attention to it. “Oh, so-and-so slept with other women? Wonder how many come out to say they’ve been with him too.” And that’s the end of the discussion. It’s not as bothersome to us, we’ve been exposed to the scenarios and since it’s not the first one to ever happen, it doesn’t shock us. The more it happens, the more we’re expecting it to happen.
Women are incredibly sexy creatures but have been told by our families, friends, and society that we shouldn’t be sexual; there is so much confusion and no one to help them sort through it. The more women understand their sexuality and that it is perfectly FINE to be a sexual being, I think we’ll start to see more women opening their minds to relationships such as cuckolding or exploring fetishes as well as finding ways to spice things up a bit. Ladies, take long, good look at yourself. Do you enjoy sex? Would you enjoy MORE sex? What about having BETTER sex? In this day and age, we can’t be overly worried about what society or the public is going to think. In many cases, they’ll never know anything about our sex life! There are ways to have your cake and eat it too. You just have to look for them. ;)
Jinxypie 
