Feminization, sometimes also referred to as sissification, is typically used in instances of female dominance. It can also be a person’s choice to change from male to female either physically or behaviorally, not something they’re forced in to. Feminization can be something temporary and fetishistic, like wearing lingerie or taking on feminine mannerisms, or can go as far as actual transgender surgeries and emasculation. As I mentioned in the Cuckolding 101 episode for June 8th, many cuckolds may never live out their fantasies of feminization and some cuckolds may think the whole idea of feminization is ludicrous.
The most simple and sometimes unknowing level of feminization starts with the lady taking more control of decisions regarding the money and household. The cuck usually ends up with tasks like household chores, cooking, keeping the children so his woman can go out, etc. That in itself is a sort of submissiveness, she’s controlling her submissive partner by having him do the mundane, typical “female” tasks so she can take on the more “masculine” role of doing whatever the heck she pleases. This is one of the least invasive and uncomfortable ways for men to become feminized, but at the same time it provides both parties with a sense of duty and purpose that may not be agreeable to how they were raised.
As she becomes more assertive and in turn, her cuck becoming more submissive, they might decide to take feminization a step further, with full on cross dressing or simply wearing ladies underwear. Wearing panties does not make a man gay, no matter how many men have the fear that they’d be seen as such. A little bit of searching around online (on non-fetishized websites) told me that even the straight male that has no interest in feminization, cuckolding, etc, likes to wear panties because they are a different fabric, they feel much nicer than regular men’s underwear. Some even go so far as to say it makes them feel sexy. If it feels good, do it! Right?
Women that enjoy forcing their husbands into feminization love the power and control they gain over him. What woman doesn’t love to feel strong and powerful? Not to mention, there are a lot of men that want this, but are ashamed to admit that it’s their desire. They wish to wear frilly or lacy things, they want to paint their toe nails or try on high heels… but they don’t have the guts to share that fantasy. Some of these men that are “forced” into feminization try to put up a fight or act like they have no desire, just so as to not let on that this is what they really want. Perhaps the relinquishing of power is something they enjoy, and once they truly become submissive and do as their partner wishes, they have fully given themselves to her.
In our relationship, we don’t go overboard with feminization at this time. Right now we have the least invasive kind of feminization. He takes care of most of the household duties, while I focus on controlling things.
Feminization in relation to cuckolding seems to be growing quite rapidly in our lifestyle. I look forward to your thoughts and comments on this one!