A few months ago, I approached the topic of cream pies, how it differed from the term clean-up. I actually started to understand how more people tend to look at the fetish from that blog entry. Many of you either dabble in the fetish, or you would like to and just haven’t yet.
The thoughts of actually tasting one can either repulse or arouse a cuck – or even both feelings. For a guy that’s never experienced it, he’s much more leery of actually performing clean up. It’s a total head game for him. While he may crave being submissive to his sexy Cuckoldress, just knowing what he’s actually doing – cleaning up another man’s cum from his woman – can sound outright disgusting. That’s why for those that say they’re somewhat interested, I encourage them to think about what makes it appealing to them, for them not to focus on the parts that make them squeamish. You’re able to experience the desired end result for cuckolding relationships – oh, how many cucks envy you! Is clean up humiliating? Perhaps… but that’s a huge part of cuckolding. We’ve already discussed humiliation, though.
Something that has surprised me was the number of guys that wanted to know MY feelings during the act of creampie or clean up. Up until I was asked, I didn’t really give a second thought to what I was thinking – ya know? I mean, I was in that moment, living it… but what did they expect me to say? To think? To feel? I really sat down and put some deep thought into it. And as usual, my exact thoughts and feelings may not match any other Cuckoldress. First of all, I love how it feels to be with someone I trust enough to have them go bareback, then it gets even more exciting if they cum in me. I feel like a real woman, I’ve been given exactly what I deserved – a man inside of me, leaving quite the perfect present! And when it comes to clean up, I’ve grown to love the feeling of power and control. The oral sex is always nice, but that’s beside the point. (ha!) I like to be the one in charge of “after sex” activities. I either want to taunt him and tease him, or give him a “reward” for making sure that I’m well taken care of and happy. And isn’t any time spent with his favorite Cuckoldress a reward? Maybe I’m forcing cleanup after being with my guy, or maybe I’m lying back telling him about one of my encounters and he’s masturbating. Either way, I’m the one in control of it, controlling his pleasure or his denial. Having the desire to be dominant isn’t something I imagined I would love, but by golly it’s something I am glad I am getting in to!
Since we all have our different viewpoints on every situation, what we may deem normal, others may believe is unusual or just plain wrong (and vice versa). It’s all about perception. Think about it, when it comes down to it someone could make the act of sex sound incredibly disgusting!! If you have absolutely no desire to partake in creampies or clean up, don’t think that you’re selling your experience short. It’s not for everyone, no matter how hard others try to push this idea. Do what’s best for YOUR relationship. =)
That being said, what are your feelings on creampies? What about clean up? Do you have the desire?