You guys have no idea the amount of emails I receive. That’s not a complaint at all, mind you… I just wish I were able to stay caught up on the correspondence. I welcome all comments and questions with open arms and fast typing fingers. Many of my emailers are men, but more and more women are being bold and sending a message my way.
One such woman asked a really relevant question. She hasn’t yet started cuckolding her fiancé, but it has long been a fantasy of his. She’s really excited by the idea and of how it can grow their relationship… but she has one “nagging thought” that won’t seem to calm itself.
Can he really and truly love me if he wants me to have sex with other men?
I believe I can safely say, that for all women introduced to cuckolding by their men, we have asked ourselves this very same question. Some of us can own-up to the jealousy we would have if our men ever decided to take another woman for sexual escapades, so surely our guys must think this way too… right? Or is he using this as a way to trick me, or to get a reason to get out of this relationship? How could he possibly really love me?!
Calm down, friend. Let me drop a few thoughts on ya.
In a perfect relationship each partner wants the other to have extreme fulfillment, ultimate happiness, and complete love for them. Why shouldn’t (or doesn’t) this extend to the bedroom as well? If you aren’t having amazing, incredible sex or at least enjoying it as much as you probably should be, and your partner knows that you aren’t being sexually satisfied, it’s time to start talking about your sex life. Talk about different needs, and don’t be shy about it. Fantasies should be discussed too, you never know what you’ve got in common when it comes to kinks until you start airing them! People are more open-minded than ever. What you’re into may come as a shock to them at first, but it’s not something that would cause them to run screaming in the opposite direction.
Personally, if I knew I wasn’t everything my husband needed when it comes to sex, I would go to extreme measures trying to make it enjoyable for him. Call it crazy, call it what you want – I call it caring about his needs. Why is it so hard to accept that cuckolding is just one level of my husband’s extreme measures to make sure I’m happy? How could that particular kink be interpreted as him loving me any less? In fact, I think it further proves his devotion and commitment to me. His goal is to make sure I’m having as many sexual escapades as I need. He’s got every other aspect of my life covered – he’s the one I want grow old with. Since he can’t provide the sexual lifestyle I dream of, he basically handed me the keys and said “do as you wish”. Cuckolding is about a woman’s pleasure and happiness… our men love us unconditionally and want nothing but the best for us.
I’ve talked to many cucks and wanna-be cucks about their desire for the lady in their life to cuckold them, and more often than not the response is along the lines of them not being able to please her, and only wanting her to have ultimate satisfaction. They have a great relationship, things are going so well… in every place but the bedroom. They feel selfish, keeping this beautiful, sexual being to themselves when there is so much more out there for her to enjoy. Tell me how that’s loving her less? I think it screams the exact opposite.
An unexpected perk of this lifestyle is how close it has brought my husband and me. Imagine not having to censor yourself with your partner. You can both express every honest opinion you have, without fear or worry. There are very few people in your life that will give you unwavering support while at the same time being stark honest… and in a lot of relationships, your partner or spouse isn’t one of them. (Sad, but true. There are so many secrets and hurt feelings that people push deep down because they don’t want to rock the boat.) Constant open communication is what we have, at first it took a bit of work to accomplish, but now it’s so natural. I wish that others could enjoy this too.
Take a deep breath, relax, and take note, my lady friends: Love is abundant in cuckolding relationships. Hold on to that guy you’ve got! You’ll find none better. (Well, you know what I mean. 
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Jinxypie 
