Stud. Real man. Amazing cock! (Things we may call our sexual partners.)

What are the differences between Friends With Benefits (FWB), “Fuck-Buddies” (FB), Boyfriends (BF), Lovers, and Bulls? These terms are at times thrown around in the cuckolding lifestyle, but do we REALLY know what they mean? Who exactly they pertain to?

You can probably determine that from the terminology, those words refer to the men seeing the Cuckoldress, and not her cuckold.  Some of these terms are interchangeable, and some of them are quite specific.

Friends with benefits.  By definition, this is a person doesn’t have a real commitment or emotional relationship with the Cuckoldress, but they are involved in some physical contact… oral sex, simply making out, full-blown penetrative sex, etc.    It’s strictly casual.

Fuck buddies.  The same thing as FWB, you have sex with this person that is not your significant other.  You have an understanding that you’re only interested in sex, no relationship, no strings attached.

Boyfriends.  Opposite of casual sex, this is a person that you have an emotional attachment to, more so than friendship. You care about them on a deeper level than just an acquaintance or fuck buddy. You spend time together, know a lot about each other, celebrate milestones and holidays. A Cuckoldress may have one or multiple boyfriends if she chooses to.

Lovers.  Identical to boyfriends, these men are very important to a Cuckoldress.  There’s a desire to have a strong relationship with them, to be very involved in each other’s lives. These men are very pleasing to a Cuckoldress and she craves to be near them.

Bulls.  A special kind of man, usually confident and can at times be dominating. Understands the role of a bull is to have sex with the Cuckoldress.  Bulls will either want to humiliate and dominate the cuckold, or they will want to keep their interactions confined to the Cuckoldress. Either way, a bull is there for both his pleasure and the pleasure of the Cuckoldress.  These may be long-term encounters, or could be a one-time thing.

The lucky Cuckoldress can have any combination of any number of the above-mentioned men in her sexual life.  Three bulls, one boyfriend.  One fuck-buddy and two boyfriends.  Two lovers and one FWB.  One bull.  Doesn’t matter!  It’s the Cuckoldress’s choice as to what kind and how many of each she desires.  The cuckold may prefer that she have one or many, but it’s ultimately the choice of the woman.

  • Dan

    Jinxypie, loved this post, very educational! May we ask what your combination of FB. FWBs. boyfriends. lovers, and bulls is at present? Inquiring Admirers want to know:) Dan

  • Jay

    Great article again. My wife refers to her other man as her ‘lover’. Like you point out, she is not only sexually involved with him but she is also very attached to him on an emotional level. This creates a lot of sexual and emotional conflict for me, which my wife is very aware of. She uses this knowledge to play with my head even going so far as to suggest she is going to leave me for him. I know this won’t happen because my wife’s primary interest is financial domination and her lover is not well off. She does go on vacation with him and will sometimes send me away for the weekend so he can come over and they can play ‘house’ together.

  • scott Kelly

    Hi Jinxy,

    We’re finally free of all the school obligations that dogged us over the last year and a half. Em got up with Darius again and they seemed to have a great time and plan on seeing more of each other. They’re on the cusp of going beyond just fuck buddies. It has a powerful effect on me. Eventually I hope Em establishes a deeper commitment to a guy. I’m getting older and I want her to have all the fun and sexual empowerment/fulfillment she can have.

    Hope you’re doing well. We may be in NC in the spring. Nothing prettier than the Blue Ridge.

    Best,

    scott
    Mrs. Kelly’s Playhouse

  • Reggie

    My wife is also into financial domination, which I completely accept. She has a long-running relationship with another man and I have paid for several vacations for them. In turn, she rewards me with videos and photos of their escapades. Good masturbation material.

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