gay, straight, bi-talk.

Gay. Being gay.  What does it mean?  The obvious definition is homosexual (sexual desire or behavior directed towards one or multiple people of one’s own gender).

When I get emails from true or wanna-be cuckolds asking if the desire to perform clean up (licking/cleaning cum from their Cuckoldress – or her Bulls) makes them gay, I laugh a little.  No lie, I do.  Sorry if that bothers you!

Wanting to eat cum or perform clean up by itself does NOT make you gay, folks. That’s simply another fetish in itself.  Liking the clean up doesn’t make you gay either! What DOES make someone gay or bisexual is the desire to have sexual encounters and experiences with those of the same gender (or both genders, in the case of bisexuality).

Many cucks that like clean up would never imagine doing anything with the Bulls that please their lady, including fluffing or cleaning the Bull up after sex.  The thought of any interaction with a Bull is a total turn off for these cucks.  These cuckolds are certainly not gay.  Cucks that like clean up but that also enjoy the interactions with Bulls may be bisexual or have bisexual curiosities. Does this make them gay?  No, because they still desire sexual encounters with their Cuckoldress.

Are there gay cucks?  Yes.  Are those cucks involved in heterosexual relationships?  Not really.  I mean sure, there are men who are cuckolded and have no interest in anything sexual with their Cuckoldress, that desire to have sexual encounters with men.  Those men ARE gay cuckolds… but personally I don’t see that as being emotionally involved in a heterosexual relationship.  They may still be married or attached to their Cuckoldress to keep up appearances, but that may be the only real involvement.

I also want to go on record and say there are homosexuals that partake in cuckolding relationships, whether it’s a female couple or a male couple.  I’ve spoken with both types!  Homosexual couples get just as much out of cuckolding as heterosexual and bisexual couples, and even go through the same types of struggles.

Back to the topic though, enjoying a fetish such as clean up does NOT make you gay.  Desiring sexual encounters with someone of the same sex as yourself – DOES, or at least makes you bi-curious.  Hope that clears up some confusion.

  • junior

    Being labeled as gay is a misunderstanding that may never be resolved. But the fact of the matter is, forced bi or forced homosexual activity, whatever you want to call it, is nothing but another form of humiliation that has nothing to do with a cuckold’s sexual preference. And as you said, yes there are closet gays that use cuckolding instead of just coming out, but those are the ones that give cuckolds like myself a bad name.

    Consider this. Let’s say my wife and I engage in puppy play, the practice of treating me like a lower form of animal to play on our kinky desires. What if she makes me eat dog food? Does that mean I secretly like dog food more than regular food and am just using puppy play as a way to achieve that? Absolutely not, but nevertheless I would show a lot of enthusiasm doing something I generally shouldn’t want to do because I get off on being told to do humiliating things. I liken all of these kinky games to each other. But for some reason, in this day and age, people still don’t understand what actually makes someone gay.

  • Mikey35673

    I don’t agree with this in its entirety. Having sex with someone of the same sex does not make you gay..or bi curious for that matter. It makes you bisexual. Being gay means far more than physical contact. Its emotional as well. Is sucking a man by a man a gay act? Yes. But it does not make you gay.

  • Daggis98554

    I think Junior is actually agreeing with you Mikey. And I agree, this is a tough one. My girlfriend is a bit of a sadist. She has enjoyed putting me through all types of humiliation but it’s the forced homosexuality that seems to put the biggest grin on her face. Why? Because she knows I’m not into men like that and it’s nauseating for me to have to suck a guy off. But I do it for her because that’s part of “her” thing. Cucking isn’t all about us.

  • james w

    When my first wife and I began the cuckolding life style many years ago I( was straight but wanted her to experience other men as she had no experience with them before we met.
    She had one guy who became a regular and after a few months of watching them I was really attracted to his cock, I began by cleaning him and her after sex and graduated to giving him bj’s which I enjoyed very much.
    I was never attracted to any other men and after he moved on I was never tempted to repeat the experience with any of her subsequent lovers.

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