Well, what does it for ya?

I was on the FreeOnes message board in a new thread about cuckolding, and a question just kind of hit me… (ouch!) I wanted to ask it here to see what kind of feedback I get. I may have asked a similar question before, but I believe I’m wording it somewhat differently this time.

When a guy says that they enjoy watching cuckolding porn, or that they think the idea of cuckolding is “interesting”, I can’t help but wonder… do they think it’s interesting because they want their lady to turn into a Domme-type and force them into certain situations they wouldn’t otherwise put themselves in? Or, do they simply want the reality of watching their woman with another man, enjoying herself and not including some of the humiliating factors?

Sure, this could turn into a hotwifing VS cuckolding type question, but I think that those that truly have an interest in cuckolding enjoy some level of the humiliation. If it’s knowing they’re not enough to satisfy their woman due to size or stamina, if it’s knowing she’d rather force him to suck cock than to let him inside of her, if it’s the desire to be put into a chastity device for the duration of her sex with someone else or at the length of time she desires… just — what is it?

What turns you on about cuckolding, and which type do you prefer? The soft and sweet, her truly enjoying the pleasures of another while you watch or listen? Or the rough-and-dirty with possible bisexual or submissive behaviors?

Cplmidmo

I believe it is the fact that she can achieve such a level of sexual satisfaction with a lover, that I as her husband can never reach try as I might, The ability just isn’t there (5 inches & thin)
She tells me I just can’t touch & rub her in the “way & Places she needs” wants the Full feeling from the size of his cock as it Stretches her pussy & Glides over her clit with long Solid Strokes I cant give her,
Yorktown_39

I like to watch her enjoy another man or just tell me about it la. Wheter. I am not into being humiliated. I just want her to have sexual freedom and iit excites me to think she is enjoying it. I also have a 7 inch cock but after 15 years of marriage I think sex goes stale in couples. Something new adds a lot and I have lost interest as I age. Her drive has only increased. The idea of her with another man excites me and makes my need to compete increase my interest. We only have sex these days after she has seen someone else. When we do though it is like I am young again.
junior

Although many things about cuckolding and even extreme cuckolding such as forced bi are erotic to me, the main draw of being a cuckold is that my wife has sex with another man and he does a better job at it than I do. I am into the humiliation aspect, and that is enough humiliation in itself to keep me at the utmost level of arousal and hapiness.

The thing about the more mainstream sites like freeones is that you are going to get a wide range of opinions from those that are well aware of the details involving cuckolding as well as those who aren’t even sure if they know what cuckolding is. But overall, since people are different, there will be many different reasons for the appeal.
AmorphiasCuck

I have been a cuck for many, many years and it has always been “the rough” type for me. I am a sub, my Mistress is my Cuckoldress and we have a very good relationship. I am in chastity and am forced to watch her with other men, clean up after them as well as suck them off if she tells me to, and know I can;t satisfy her as other men do. Yes, it is about the humiliation and it works for us. We are a true cuck couple, it is not about swinging or watching her with other men, its about her being dominant and my being her sub.
SOFTY

I am a “soft” cucky, I like watching but also participating in cleanups and BJ’s. I love shaving her, doing nails & toes (prefer light colors) and helping pick out what she wears. When she does her makeup it drives me crazy. I also have a wrist watch fetish (am I the only one?) and love to see you Jinxy when you wear your watch (not very often ) not down near your hand but up your arm just a bit — very sexy.
Trav

The complete and utter domination. It is the ultimate form of submission, and being Abby’s cuckold is my obligation. I have a hard time deciding which is more exciting; preparing her for a date, or tending to her after a date. I know both experiences make her feel extremely powerful, and that makes me feel like I am doing a good job.
Chuckjacobs74

My loving wife and i are talking about her having sex with other men, i dont think she is as serious as i am. Are there any ideas that can help persuade her to try it
Draco

For me, I’d have to say it’s a bit of both. My girlfriend is naturally dominant, and I’ve always liked that about her. It started with simple control issues like her deciding what to do, when to do it; how I should dress, where to spend my money…things like that. I think it was natural for it to find it’s way into our sex life and it didn’t take long. And once she noticed the arousal of her controlling me sexually, humiliation also kind of naturally happened. Little things at first, like telling me I wasn’t lasting long enough and instructing me how to “please” her. But for me, I guess it was her insulting my manhood, literally. The night she first did that, I came instantly. She noticed. I’m well endowed actually but she took to insulting my size regularly to the point it was happening during daily activities. And when she would do that, i would get an erection. We went to dinner one night and she started into me, knowing I would get hard. She then forced me to get up and go to the bathroom, having to walk through the restaurant with a visible erection. I think that was when it all changed for us. And, like the other progressions, the humiliation turned into he openly stating she wanted a ‘real man’. And again, this was not relegated to the bedroom. She openly said it. All of this happened over the course of 6 months. By the seventh month, she was sharing our bed with another man. We are still together, still in love and she now has 3 regular lovers.