I was going through my emails (catching up because I’m SO behind!) and saw something that perked my ears up. ((Ok, not literally, you know… my ears are attached and don’t really move that much.))
The writer tells me:
“I am sure that I am cuckolding material whether you base this on size, performance, attitude, or anything else. I really feel that my wife is a very sexual woman who must be frustrated.”
That got me thinking…
YOU may see yourself and your situation like this, but does your lady? Maybe she does, and doesn’t realize it?
The only way to really get the ball rolling is to start bringing it up. Perhaps you go the route of her sexuality and sexual frustration (if there is any). Of course in the beginning she may deny being sexually frustrated. She may really want sex more and more, and just be afraid to initiate or maybe she has a few toys and takes care of business herself. If she wants more, give her more… but instead of YOU, perhaps you use those toys or even venture out to buy her new ones? Something bigger, maybe? Perhaps a different color?
If you start to discuss this by bringing up your “shortcomings” – haha – then you’ll have to understand she may have many conflicting feelings or thoughts. Sure, she may have had bigger men than you in the past. Men that lasted longer. Men that were more dominant. Does that mean she wants a man like that all the time? No, silly… why else is she with you? Get her to see that talking about your penis size isn’t because you want her to tell you how big you are… you know you aren’t the biggest, and you’re OK WITH IT. You know you don’t last that long, and you’re concerned that SHE isn’t getting the sexual satisfaction she rightly deserves…
Bringing these conversations around to HER pleasure is important. After all, cuckolding is about the woman’s sexuality, right?
Jinxypie 
