Tags: struggles

  • Hello? *silence*

    There are times when we go out on a limb just to be left hanging. It could be by someone we’ve never met, or by a bull we’ve been with multiple times. There’s a lot of time taken in getting to know someone. Emailing, instant messaging, texting, talking… We make the plans to meet, moving [...]

  • No pressure, but can you just do it already?

    What happens when you put too much pressure on something?  It usually explodes, or implodes, from my experience.  People are the same way; you put too much pressure on someone and they explode (get angry) or implode (have a breakdown).  How do you keep this from happening? Know your limits and boundaries. Sometimes men that [...]

  • Boring!

    I realize that many times when people send negative comments or hate mail to me, they’re just trying to get me to respond so they know they’ve gotten to me.  This one, however, is a little different.  I’m sure this “anonymous” person means well, they were trying to give some constructive criticism, and that’s how [...]

  • For the bulls – what is your “style”?

    Bulls, thank you for being here.  You men are the reason cuckolding is so fun for us cuckolding couples!  Some of you are very new at this, and are looking for more information to really understand what you’re getting into.  This is a place where you can ask the questions you want the answers to, [...]

  • Mostly talking to the ladies on this one.

    This week, a question was asked of me on Twitter.  Is there such thing as bad sex? I think we all know the real answer to that.  YES. We may not have the guts to say it to our partner, but sometimes they just don’t have what we need when it comes to sex.  Maybe [...]

  • Middle ground.

    I was recently asked why I don’t share more “revelations about (my) thoughts and daily life experiences and practices” in my videos and blogs.  Instead of getting into a long ramble about keeping some things private, I want to take this a different direction. I don’t understand why people outside of this lifestyle, or those [...]

  • A bit on angst.

    Some things are better left fantasy. Some things are amazing once brought out of the fantasy zone and experienced in reality. How do you know which things are right to try? When is it right to push your limits, and when is it better to fall back and take it slow? There’s only one person [...]

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